Category: Job Search

You Don’t Need a Perfect Resume … You Need a Path, a Place to Start When the Usual Advice Doesn’t Fit

Paul Wagenaar

This is a longer blog. I won’t pretend it isn’t.

But job searching is exhausting, and the usual tips often make it worse. So I wrote something slower, steadier, and more honest.

It’s a practical framework to help anyone looking for work, or someone supporting them, to see where they are, what’s working, and what deserves energy next. No judgment. No rush. Just clarity.

You don’t need to fix everything. You just need your next step.

📌 If that resonates, it’s worth a read, and please share it with anyone you know who’s on this journey.

The Job seeker’s Playbook

Paul Wagenaar

You can find a job on your own, but it’s easier with the right tools.

As a career advisor in a non-profit organization, I know that one weekly meeting isn’t enough. Job searching is an acquired skill, built through practice, reflection, and momentum, not perfection.

With direct input from job seekers, we created The Job Seeker’s Playbook, a practical, strength-based tool designed to reduce feelings of being overwhelmed, protect confidence, and turn job searching into small, winnable weekly actions.

Built from lived experience, not theory, it helps job seekers build skills, stand out, and take ownership of their search, at their own pace.

Atypical – Just Another Word for Discrimination?

Paul Wagenaar

Point of view … perspective … life experience … and what we learn each day. The more I learn about other people, their challenges, and their resilience, the more I am determined to help illuminate what many of us do not see. Please take a few minutes to read this post and to share it; the people in all our communities who live with disabilities and barriers could really use our help.

Redefining the Perfect Hire: Who’s in Your Blind Spots?

Paul Wagenaar

Does the best candidate always get the job?

Does everyone who can do the job get equal consideration?

Or do our unconscious biases, misconceptions, and traditional image of the “ideal candidate” create hiring blind spots preventing us from seeing different and perhaps better hiring solutions?

… a process and a journey

Paul Wagenaar

How does someone become motivated?

In life, at home, and in particular when they are searching for a job. Motivation becomes more complex when people experience stress and frustration. Whether neurodiverse or neurotypical, we all all affected.

I find it helps to think of motivation as a learned skill, a journey, and a process of a series of small steps that will get you where you want to be. Today’s post, lays out a path you or someone you know might consider.

Failing Should Be Taught More …

Paul Wagenaar

Learning to fail seems counterintuitive to everything our success culture seems to value. I believe people who say they never fail likely aren’t trying enough new ideas or ways of doing things. Failure isn’t the end, I believe it is simply an additional step on becoming successful. What is important, is learning how to fail so that failure doesn’t discourage you and lead to giving up.

Why Our Current Interview Practices Are Unfair

Paul Wagenaar

I believe our current system of interviewing people is flawed. People who are able to answer questions confidently and quickly have an advantage, even though they may not be the best applicant for the position. As an employer or as a job seeker, there are things we can all do differently … this is a short guide to just what we can change.

Inclusive Hiring Series – Part 1 – ASD

Paul Wagenaar

This is a brief guide, the first of a series of guides; this one is intended to help employers learn about and realize how much people who are autistic or otherwise neurodivergent can contribute to their organizations and businesses. It is not a comprehensive research paper; rather, it is a simple guide based on the personal experiences of job seekers, employers who embrace diversity, equity, and inclusion, and other anecdotal information I have gleaned.

Your help, understanding, and willingness is needed.

Job Seeking Series

Paul Wagenaar

Did you know that 70-80% of the jobs available are not advertised online? That means the people who only look online for jobs have a lot of competition.

This is a number that seems to be all over the internet and even if it is only partially true; how do you access them? “Word of mouth,” and networking. What if you don’t really understand networking or would like some tips? Keep reading.

Why routine is important to job seekers

Paul Wagenaar

The feeling of loss of purpose is one of the hardest obstacles to overcome for some people when they search for a new job. It can be difficult to find motivation. The fear of not finding what you need to live is ever-present. As well, the frustration of frequent rejection can all combine to make your job search so much more difficult.

Rediscovering your purpose can be helped by creating and using the “tool” of a daily routine. A routine to mirror your working day, a routine with blocks of time for job searching, performing useful task, getting out of your home, engaging with people, exercising, and engaging with your community. An evolving routine can help you build yourself back up and restore your purpose.