In 1500 words or less, each post will give you something you can use TODAY to build yourself, your people and your organization whether your organization is a "for-profit" or a "not-for-profit."
Sometimes the problem isn’t what someone said.
It’s the story we told ourselves about what they meant.
Before we judge the person in front of us, perhaps we should turn the lens around, and question what our own assumptions are telling us.
A job is an exchange … not a one-way street.
Employees owe employers something.
Employers owe employees something too.
The workplace has changed. The responsibility hasn’t.
What do we owe each other at work?
We move at the speed of trust.
I may be one of the few career advisors who regularly encourage job seekers to break the rules.
Not because I don’t understand them.
Because sometimes what we call conventional wisdom is simply something we’ve repeated so often that we stopped questioning it.
I tell people to stand out: Contact employers before jobs are posted. Build relationships. Challenge assumptions. Stop making their résumé look like everyone else’s.
But there’s a catch: You can’t ask someone to take an unconventional path without first giving them a reason to trust you.
Resistance isn’t always stubbornness. Sometimes it’s fear, self-protection, or the weight of years of rejection and being told what they should do.
My job isn’t to convince people that I’m right.
It’s to help them become confident enough to question advice, including mine.
Because the goal isn’t to create followers. It’s to help people trust themselves enough to find their own way forward.
And that’s why: We move at the speed of trust.
I was lying on the ice, staring up at the lights, knowing I didn’t belong.
Everyone else was faster. Better. More natural.
I had no business being out there, and I knew it. In that moment, I made a decision: I was done.
I started to pull myself up, already planning how I’d leave, what I’d say, how I’d explain that this just wasn’t for me.
And then someone skated over.
Most candidates walk into an interview hoping they’ll say the right thing. The best candidates walk in already understanding what matters to the employer.
Preparation is the one part of the job search you fully control, and it’s where most people fall short. When you take the time to understand the organization, align your answers to their needs, and follow through with intention, you’re no longer just another applicant. You’re someone who made it easier to say yes.
Most hiring mistakes happen before the interview begins.
Resumes can be polished, charm can be rehearsed, and yet the person you hire may not be the one your organization truly needs. A simple pre-interview questionnaire reveals how candidates think, respond under pressure, and treat people they believe won’t influence their outcome.
Hiring isn’t about perfection—it’s about understanding real thinking before it costs you.
Most managers hate admitting when a hire isn’t working out.
So they delay the conversation.
They hope the problem fixes itself.
Or they quietly tolerate issues that affect the whole team.
But ignoring a bad fit rarely solves anything. Sooner or later every leader faces the same reality: not every hire works out.
In the latest article in my Inside the Interview series, I talk about what good managers actually do when hiring goes wrong, and how to handle the situation professionally, fairly, and responsibly.
Every summer, organizations hire students to fill short-term roles. Few stop to consider that they are shaping long-term futures.
For many students, a summer job is their first real encounter with responsibility, accountability, and workplace culture. It is where reputations begin. It is where habits are formed. It is where confidence is either strengthened or quietly eroded.
For employers, hiring students is not simply a staffing decision. It is a leadership decision. It is a choice about whether to treat young people as temporary labour, or as emerging professionals.
When approached intentionally, summer employment becomes more than seasonal work. It becomes mentorship, community investment, and the foundation of someone’s career.
We move through and interact with dozens of organizations and people every day, healthcare, government, work, housing, commerce, and community spaces. Most interactions are brief, yet over time they quietly shape our sense of dignity, trust, and belonging.
This post explores a simple idea: a reasonable expectation of humanity in those interactions. Not perfection or special treatment, but clarity, respect for time, basic human regard, competence with humility, fairness, and accountability when things go wrong.
As you read, notice where these standards are present in your own interactions, and where they quietly fall away. And if you work inside an organization that holds power over others, consider how humanity is supported by design, not just individual effort.
As with most of my posts, this is a little longer than most, thank you for taking the time to read.
Homes speak quietly. This is a longer post, I know, but it’s worth five unhurried minutes. Drawing on witchcraft philosophy and generations of folk wisdom, “Burping Your House” explores how paying attention through the seasons can prevent bigger problems later. Blending practical Canadian home care with mindful observation, it’s a reminder that care, timing, and gratitude are a kind of everyday magic.